Frappier states that we need other people to confront us so that we can perform a cross examination on ourselves. Conflict and confrontation from other people as a basis of changing or learning ideas depends on the view point that people hold. Other people argue that confrontation and conflict may not or may help us see reality in different ways.
I strongly agree with frappiers idea that conflict and confrontation from other people help us see reality in different ways. When we want to make decisions we usually tend to think positively on our ideas and its human enough to think that what we want or think is possible and applicable unless we are criticized or confronted with others that are when we can start thinking of the negative part of our thoughts and ideas.
Confrontation and conflict from other people help us see reality in different ways. Example my friends dad wanted to build a house and after he finished the plan of the house he intended to built, he brought the plan when the family was at dinner time, so when every had seen the plan his elder son told his father that the plan was good designed but it lacked a study room and agarrage.This made his father to go and to draft another plan that included his sons brilliant ideas.
Confrontation and conflict from other people help us see reality in different way. Example in Kenya in Africa during general election of 2007 when the electoral commissioners announced that the former president had won the election the entire country was not satisfied with the results which resulted to post election un arrests which lead to massive killings of innocent civilians by the armed forces but after the former president was confronted with other leaders he was able to form a coalition government with his running mate who is now the prime minister and him the president and the un arrests the killings stopped .
Confrontation and conflict from other people help us see reality in different ways. Example I used to warm food from the fridge using our home microwave so one day I used a plastic plate to warm my food, unfortunately my mother come home early that day and found the plate had melted inside the microvave,she confronted me that day and I was grounded for one week. Since then I don’t use plastic plates when warming food in the microwave.
Confrontation and conflict from other people may sometimes be viewed to be useless but the bottom line is two blind people cannot lead each other they need a guider so they can move and the guider are other people who see our mistakes so that we can see clearly.